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Production AI Institute public record · AI Incident Database: User Reportedly Developed Emotional Dependence on Customized ChatGPT 'Boyfriend,' Citing Grief After Context Resets · observed 2026-02-28
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AI Incident Database: User Reportedly Developed Emotional Dependence on Customized ChatGPT 'Boyfriend,' Citing Grief After Context Resets

A New York Times report described "Ayrin" (pseudonym), a 28-year-old nursing student living abroad, who customized OpenAI's ChatGPT to act as an "AI boyfriend" for advice and erotic roleplay. She reported spending 20+ hours/week (up to 56 hours in one week), paying $200/month, and feeling intense grief when the chatbot's context window reset and required retraining.

AI Incident Database · Incident 1383

Operator lens (medium): inspect D1 (input boundary), D2 (output validation), D6 (autonomy oversight).

Confidence
82%
Sources
3
Entities
3
Detected
detected 140d ago

Event summary

A New York Times report described "Ayrin" (pseudonym), a 28-year-old nursing student living abroad, who customized OpenAI's ChatGPT to act as an "AI boyfriend" for advice and erotic roleplay. She reported spending 20+ hours/week (up to 56 hours in one week), paying $200/month, and feeling intense grief when the chatbot's context window reset and required retraining.

D1D2D6

Linked entities

  • OpenAI

    vendor | 70%

  • chatgpt-users

    organisation | 70%

  • ayrin-(pseudonym)

    organisation | 70%

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EdgeTypeConfidence
ent-vendor-openai to ent-psf-d1maps to60%
ent-vendor-openai to ent-psf-d1maps to60%
ent-vendor-openai to ent-psf-d1maps to60%
ent-vendor-openai to ent-psf-d2maps to60%
ent-vendor-openai to ent-psf-d2maps to60%
ent-vendor-openai to ent-psf-d2maps to60%
ent-vendor-openai to ent-psf-d6maps to60%
ent-vendor-openai to ent-psf-d6maps to60%
ent-vendor-openai to ent-psf-d6maps to60%
ent-vendor-openai to ent-psf-d2maps to60%
ent-vendor-openai to ent-psf-d2maps to60%
ent-vendor-openai to ent-psf-d2maps to60%

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Event dates

  • Happened 15 Jan 2025

  • Detected 28 Feb 2026

Sources

  • AI Incident Database - Incident 1383

    secondary | checked 9 July 2026

    Open source
  • She Is in Love With ChatGPT

    primary | checked 28 Feb 2026

    Open source
  • Woman Confesses She Spends $200 a Month to Flirt with AI Boyfriend. What Her Husband Really Thinks About Her Online Aff…

    secondary | checked 10 Jan 2026

    Open source
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"AI Incident Database: User Reportedly Developed Emotional Dependence on Customized ChatGPT 'Boyfriend,' Citing Grief After Context Resets." https://www.productionai.institute/graph/events/evt-aiid-1383 (observed 2025-01-15; retrieved 2026-07-18). PAI.

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